BOUND TO AWAKEN
I hold it true that every woman is naturally and wholly a Goddess. The only obstacle to living your life in your full natural expression is because the ego-mind gets in the way. The ego-mind is simply the result of our programming and belief systems that have developed from our life experiences and learned from our role models. The good news is that you are NOT your ego-mind. You ARE a woman who is fully: loving, powerful, sensual, grounded, conscious, intuitive , and expressive.
The essence of my work is that I help you to be fully in the present so that you can be in your True magnificence. To achieve this, I combine a wide variety of healing skills, coaching, energy work, and optional body work, to help you to be fully empowered in every aspect of yourself. In short, I can guide, teach and mentor you to:
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It is with the deepest of gratitude and appreciation that I apply my words in this letter to you.
You have been a major component and instrument, in healing some of my oldest and deepest wounds. You have helped enliven the sexual energy between my beloved husband of twenty years and myself. Both of us are feeling and exploring into areas we have never ventured into before.
In the safe space you have provided for me and through your guidance and conscious direction, I have been able to let go of much control and resistance and have begun to experience the emergence of a softer, more Feminine expression in my day-to-day life. Were it ever necessary, I would trust you with my very life.
I, who have personified in life, a defiant, wild and untameable creature, have been opened, flowered and surrendered by your coaching abilities and through this opening, my spiritual focus has shifted to a more conscious and loving attitude. I have seen fear for what it truly is; a separation from love and, in this “seeing”, I am releasing many old fear-based perceptions and replacing them with confidence, self-awareness and a deep feeling of connection to the world I live in, all done with your most remarkable talents and insight.
With the deepest respect and admiration,
I know now, in this moment, that our time together has been a defining experience in my life.
Thank you for resurrecting my faith that there are loving, kind, gentle, strong, respectful, trustworthy, compassionate, conscious men in the world who want to support women to be in their power.
Thank you for helping me to realize that it is just a matter of being the right woman that will help me to attract the right man.
Thank you for being so patient and present in my processes and for encouraging me to be the same.
Thank you for helping me feel like sexuality is such a normal and wonderful part of my life.
Thank you for helping me open more to myself in body and spirit. Because of this I have increased confidence that my interactions with the world will be more authentic.
Thank you for believing in me.
Thank you for modeling a man who is present and powerful, and yet loving and vulnerable.
Thank you for the courage you have had to surrender into your heart and love, and for allowing me to experience how powerful it is to overcome fear.
Because of the intensity of our many sessions over the last month, I am not sure that I grasp the many repercussions of this work, but I trust that at some level, my being understands the imprints of energy and love that occurred and will unfold them to me as greater awareness in right timing.
I feel like this is just the beginning of a new journey in my life, but what an initiation! Regardless of whether or not I continue to work with you, I will always be grateful for this unique and wondrous healing time of my life.
I think you are an amazing and courageous man to be doing this work - a spiritual and sexual snow plough of sorts. You are a powerful gift to women, to me and to the world.
Blessings, and lots of Love and Light on your path.
Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
I have been doing healing sessions with Dominic for a couple months and have found him to be a very supportive and caring person. He has created a warm, safe environment where I have been able to relax and move deeper into myself.
Through holding, talking when needed, massage, deep breathing and various modes of sensual touch, I have experienced both emotional and sexual healing. I have had a couple of very intense sessions when I released much emotion. I have found these experiences to be similar to the rebirthing sessions.
After slowly building up the sexual energy throughout my entire body and allowing the energy to be released through orgasm, the body is in such a relaxed, pleasurable, yet highly charged state that it is able to somehow access what seems to be stored or blocked emotional or sexual energy. What then occurs is a shift or releasing of that repressed and unexpressed energy.
On several sessions, waves of energy just moved through my body for some time and then dissipated. I was quite tired, yet a deeper calmness had settled in.
These sessions have helped me to get more in touch with myself and I have found a real sense of freedom in exploring sensual bondage. I was able to physically feel the limits and restrictions placed on my body by my own mind, allowing them to be fully expressed and released.
Vancouver, British Columbia
Meeting Dominic Lord has changed my life forever. I used to view sex as something I did for a release, or something I did to please a partner. Now I see sexual energy as a healing force in my life.
I thought I just wanted the massage but after experiencing a sensual restraint session, I felt something dark in my soul being released - a residue of childhood abuse...It was like a window in my soul had opened....
I used to be in a constant state of distracting arousal and now I am at peace with my sensuality. I have more energy and am able to focus on raising my consciousness in other areas. I am more in touch with myself, who I am and where I am going in life.
Whitehorse, Yukon, Canada
If we consider that every person, regardless of gender or gender identity, have a core essence and natural traits. Lets call these traits Masculine (or Yang) and Feminine (or Yin). The Masculine is about action, protection, construction, and unconscious dominance. Feminine is about love, nurturing, intuition, and consciousness. We all have these qualities, but how we are in our natural expression of them is entirely individual. If we also consider that women tend to be stronger in their Feminine and men tend to be stronger in their Masculine, but how does this influence our way of being?
Unfortunately, it’s become “a man’s world.” Our society has been dominated by men or the Masculine for hundreds, if not thousands of years. This is largely true in government, industry, the corporate world, and in virtually every religion. In my opinion, this is the root cause of the state of our planet and social systems. Instead of being guided by love, our leaders are motivated by profit and control. How did this come about? I believe that males have dominated simply from physical strength and, at their core, they were motivated by their fear of the natural power and wisdom of women. This has created a gross imbalance – a world driven by fear, where love and caring have been replaced by greed and power. This has sadly permeated our culture and has a dramatic impact on both males and females.
As a woman, especially in the workplace, you may have learned to tough it up, to be strong in your Masculine to be accepted in a world dominated by the Masculine. In some cases, women may be expected to outperform men to be somewhat accepted as equal. As a consequence, women have learned to be strong in your “Masculine” essence to succeed in this world which, although may be empowering and beneficial while doing business and completing tasks, it can be at the expense of your Feminine expression.
How do these role reversals affect the dynamics of relationship? Both men and women have a need and desire to fully experience all aspects of themselves, but in order for a woman to experience her Feminine she needs to be able to fully surrender into a spontaneous, natural flow of the moment. For a woman to be fully in her Feminine is only possible if she feels that it is safe enough to do so. Part of this safety is based in a deep trust that her partner will take care of immediate circumstances. Is she able to do this if the man is not assertive, clear and strong? Maybe, but that is not enough. She must also feel her partner's love, and then trust that he will allow his intuition will guide him. A woman cannot surrender to her Divine Feminine essence, her Goddess, unless she is in the presence of a man who is strong in his Feminine AND strong in his Masculine.
In my practice, I intuitively create a safe, respectful environment for a woman to fully experience herself in the presence of a man. It's not about letting go of your power, its about inspiring you to choose to be in your love and flow so that you can be in the experience of your love, intuition, joy, sensuality. By exploring your blocks to intimacy through various energy and body practices, I can assist you to break through barriers that have restricted the natural flow of your love, power, and sexual energy. This will ultimately lead to a deeper understanding and a more joyful experience of yourself and relationships.
A great deal can be achieved with an ongoing coaching relationship with me. I can gently and clearly help you to identify the belief systems that you have adopted in your life that prevent you from fully living your Truth. This will result in greater clarity from within so that you can be the radiant, sensual and powerful woman that you are. I can also incorporate a unique combination of tools and techniques derived from counselling, coaching, Tantra, and energy work. I also offer "hands-on" sessions incorporating either straight massage or erotic massage. This can enrich your relationship with yourself, and enable you to break through barriers to intimacy and sensuality.
While the above are important steps of the process, there are additional forms of healing that may be taken that will help you to fully embody and integrate all aspects of your Feminine. Once I have earned your trust, I can also provide a more profound experience of surrendering to your magnificence. By playing at surrendering, it is possible for you to experience your Feminine much more profoundly. To support and deepen this process, I have combined Tantra techniques with the art of sensual restraint combined with heightened sensory stimulation. This is a unique element of my practice, which I have termed “Tantric Bondage” and the result is that you can understand, experience and embody your true natural essence of the Feminine, perhaps like never before.
An important clarification about Tantra that I want to make. In the West there is a belief that Tantra is just about sexuality but in truth, this is just one aspect. In simple terms, Tantra could be considered as a combination of body, energy and spirituality, but this ancient and beautiful practice incorporates the entire art of life. It is also about, diet, meditation, environment, relationship with our selves and others. It is about making choices for our highest good, which automatically is for the highest good of all. In Tantric massage, we set the intention to allow your natural sexual energy to rise and, with some simple practices involving breath and intention, it is possible to experience profound feelings of love.
Please note that I do not provide sexual service and my genitals remain covered and off limits at all times. This is an important part of creating the safety.