FOR MEN

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Through one-on-one coaching, I can help you identify and expand into your full potential in life, relationship, sexuality, and career by learning how to consciously integrate your own inner Strength, Purpose and Heart.

As a man, have you experienced resistance from your partner? Do you find yourself agreeing or complying with your partner just to have immediate peace or do you wonder why it is such a challenge to keep your partner happy? If you have answered "yes" to any of these questions, then please read on. 

Throughout history, men have dominated the realm of business, politics and religion, but more recently there has been a movement towards equality between men and women, which has been long overdue. The aspect that has been missed in this development is in the realization that there really is a difference between the sexes, and it is this difference that creates Polarity - the core attraction between the masculine and feminine, just like magnetism, where opposite poles attract. 

Polarity has little to do with the gender of individuals or the roles that men or women play in society. While it may be true that men are naturally more masculine and women are naturally more feminine, this attraction becomes apparent when opposite energies reveal themselves to each other, regardless of gender. 

In the "politically correct" approach to equality, there has been a suppression of gender differences and it is almost as if society has made it unacceptable to be male or female, feminine or masculine. On a subtle level, we are being forced to assume a role of neutrality and the very aliveness of our sexual energy is being numbed into obscurity. 

The core issues that show up in relationship these days are a direct result of this suppression. Many men are confused because they do not know, or have at least forgotten how to be masculine, just like many women have forgotten how to be feminine. 

More recently, men have been led to believe that they are supposed to be soft and sensitive and that "macho" behaviour is unacceptable. At the same time however, women are often very attracted to a strong masculine essence and while few women would deny this, they frequently act as if they want to suppress this very characteristic. This is very confusing for men and leads to uncertainty in how to show up in relationship.

Some of the characteristics of the feminine are intuition, nurturing and love, while some of the masculine attributes manifest themselves in action, doing business and protection. All of these characteristics naturally appear in both men and women. 

In the past, men have been taught to rely upon their masculine, making decisions based on technical data and taking actions which were based on physical dominance manifesting in countless wars and conflicts. Even though intuition must have played a part in decision-making, men have largely ignored this aspect of themselves. 

At the same time, it has generally been much more acceptable and likely that women listen to their intuition and know what the next best course of action is. Hence the expressions, "you can trust a woman's intuition" or "Mother knows best." However, because women have largely been suppressed over the ages, for their own safety they learned to get things done by subtle means so as not to threaten a man's position of apparent control. To illustrate this point, ask any woman if she has ever withheld her opinion or action to protect a man's ego. Because women have always been in touch with their feminine, they have also developed a strong masculine in order to stay safe and still get things done. 

In addition to all of this, women are now much more involved in the workforce and business, which is mostly a masculine environment that heretofore has been dominated by men and to compete, women have drawn even further on their masculine strengths. The result is that women have become strong in their masculine while remaining strong in their feminine. 

Currently, men are suppressing their masculine and are new to the concept of being aware of their feminine. Consequently, many men are weak in their masculine and also weak in their feminine. Is it any wonder that many women "take control" in relationship? Simply put, their experience has better prepared them to do this. 

From my own experience, I have learned that this apparent imbalance, which naturally causes a level of dissatisfaction for both men and women, shows up in relationship. On a core level, women need and want to be able to experience their feminine characteristics of love and surrender and if a man does not create the polarity by being both strong and loving, then it is simply not safe for a woman to be totally feminine. Women will instinctively try and maintain control for their own safety. 

So, what is a man to do? The dynamics of the Masculine and Feminine may seem confusing at first but I can teach you everything that you need to know to be fully present, powerful and loving as a man. It is my belief that every man has the ability to tap into his natural essence, and to inspire intimacy, trust and respect from his partner. 

Through ongoing Coaching, mentoring and teaching, I can help you to understand the dynamics of relationship and what you can do to become fully satisfied as a man. 

Contact me for a free consultation.